John TompsonMy Letter to BoeingOn January 11, 2024, I decided to write a letter to someone at Boeing. I didn’t really care, and still don’t care if it was read or not. It…3 min read·Feb 2, 2024----
John TompsonWhat If You Were Told The Submersible You Were Boarding For $250K To Dive 12,000ft Had A Wooden…It is a very amazing thing to see how much content has been created out of the OceanGate Titan disaster. I won’t go on a diatribe about how…4 min read·Jul 11, 2023----
John TompsonWhy We Attract Unavailable Single People Is Not What It Used To BeMy dating life has been quite the social experiment as an adult. A common thread through the entire history of it has been attracting…6 min read·Apr 21, 2023----
John TompsonDo Some Women Feel Validated By Rejecting Men They Have No Interest In, In The First Place?I will preface this essay by saying that I am first and foremost pro-woman in all that it entails. My mom was a college professor when I…6 min read·Jan 14, 2023----
John TompsonSelf-Hatred In The WorkplaceI work for a microphone manufacturer that actually manufactures microphones…in the United States, which is a very unusual thing for my…2 min read·Feb 18, 2022----
John TompsonOn Being “Honest” With A Dishonest Personal NarrativeI recently experienced an interaction on Bumble where right before a neat woman and I were to set up a phone conversation, she told me that…4 min read·Dec 5, 2021----
John TompsonThe Internet, The Dating Apocalypse, & You: A 1960s Film StripI find it amusing, perplexing, and vexing that humans scapegoat their own creations to justify behavior(s) rather than accept…5 min read·Oct 13, 2021----
John TompsonSocial Distance Impacts Introverts, TooIt’s pretty clear to me people are on edge at the moment. We’re a divided nation out of our own national stupidity. The way to solve this…2 min read·Sep 26, 2021----
John TompsonHonesty Comes From Being HumbledMy friend Niko and I go back to 2004 when worked for the same company and would hang out after work because we lived nearby. He is one of…5 min read·Aug 13, 2021----
John TompsonEmotional Unavailability Doesn’t Care How Hot Or Not You AreIn mid 2009 my late 20s hit a crescendo when a debt collector started calling me at work. I’d been dodging phone calls from the 859 area…3 min read·Jul 31, 2021----